Pose sex toys as a couple

How to introduce your partner to the universe of sex toys

The fear of incorporating sex toys  into sexual experiences as a couple is still very common. It’s normal, sex is a very intimate moment, and inviting a toy to the party can be a little suspicious at first. Regarding that, add only two things.

• Sex toys are pleasure enhancers, we don’t say it, science says it: our brain anticipates the sensations of human movements before they occur (for example, a caress) but with toys it becomes impossible, and that contributes to that generate so much pleasure.
• Additionally, sex toys can help you get out of your sexual routine. You will see that the pleasure will increase twice as much!

We know that it can be a bit difficult, so we have prepared a guide with the steps you should follow to tell your partner that you want to incorporate sex toys into your relationships.

Create an atmosphere of communication in the relationship

To make it natural, it is advisable to have conversations about sex often with your partner. It’s as easy as telling him how much you liked it when he touched you that way or asking, “Did you like it when I did this?” Talking about the sex we are having, what we like, what we don’t, what I read in an article or what I saw in a movie makes intimacy and trust improve. In addition, a space of comfort is created where you can express your desires, your fantasies and also your limits with total transparency.

Say you want to try sex toys together

The incorporation of a sex toy in the bedroom has to be approved by both parties in the relationship. It is not a very good idea to take out the toy in question in the middle of the task and expect everything to flow normally. Doing that is not respectful, and you may be forcing your partner to do something that they don’t feel like doing at the moment or that they don’t want to do at all. Try to give your partner enough space to decide if he wants to do it or not. For this reason, it is advisable that you talk about it calmly in a very fruitful conversation.

There is no good or bad time to have the conversation. What is important are the forms: avoid using expressions that have any negative connotations such as, for example, “It is very difficult for me to reach orgasm.” Instead, focus on how potentially exciting and fun it can be to introduce a toy into your relationships.

Decide which sex toys you want to try and buy them

The range of sex toys is very wide: from vibrators and suction cups to masturbators and anal plugs , including the entire collection of BDSM items . The most important thing is that both you and your partner are on the same page as to what type of toy you want to try out hand in hand. 

Spend a good time browsing the dalilaass.com website and once you have agreed, buy your sex toy. It is highly recommended to also buy  water-based lubricant to further increase the pleasure.

If you don’t know where to start, here are some recommendations to get you started with sex toys as a couple :

Take time to get to know your new toy

It is advisable to know how the toy works before trying it, because this way you avoid being on the verge of reaching orgasm and having it turn off because you have touched the wrong button. For this reason, we recommend that you read the instructions carefully, your pleasure depends on it! So, wait to unmake the bed until you know how it works: What does it turn on and off with? How do you increase and decrease intensity? Are there vibration patterns?

Comment on the experience

To maintain the atmosphere of communication mentioned above, talk about the new experience: What did you like most about playing with sex toys? What’s not? How you felt?

If for any reason you didn’t like the experience, perhaps it is not the best toy for you. Don’t give up! There are many options on the market and finding your ideal sex toy is not an easy task. Furthermore, sex is always a matter of practice, communication and experimentation.